Wisdom from Lola x 2

I was spending some time with Lola at the office and hit shuffle to see what wisdom she would throw at me. She had two songs that somehow just seemed appropriate. "Just Cruisin" by Will Smith and "Work in Progress" by Alan Jackson.


Just Crusin by Will Smith
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Intro, the maestro, nice flow
Hot like nitro.. cool as ice though
That type of dichotomy, y'all know it's gotta be
Who else could it be BUT me?
Rub your eyes, behold the Big Williest
dream supreme beam straight from Philly it's the
eclectic female attractor
Rapper slash actor, right back at ya
And to the next millenium many come but few are chosen
See me servin like the U.S. Open
Another type of hustler listed at Blockbuster
.. go and ask a movie usher
Who is he? He or she - SFP
Movies, CD's, and TV's, but uh-uh
cause today I take a break from that
as I roll where a tank of gas'll take me at
I used to rock these red Iroq Z's
Now I rock the MB's with the twelves and V's
Today, sun high.. up in the sky
From N.Y. la la to M.I., just cruising

Where, baby, I don't care (just cruisin)
As long as you take me there (just cruisin)
Somewhere to clear my mind (just cruisin)
Just cruising

Zero to sixty, flossin - 90 degrees
Sony cartridges, ten CD's each
Reach to the beach, Southside leanin
It ain't often I'm off and I'm feenin for the -
- top down, drop down got me hot now
Heated up can't stop now
What up cutie wop? Sure sure is cookin yo
I know I'm spoken for, can't hurt lookin though
Pop CD's, B-I-G's, then Tupac's
While cruisin the blocks, hittin the hot spots
Got my celly on O-F-F
Golden Arches got my belly goin oh yes yes
So let's just - ease on down ease on down the road
No pager on my hip as I'm rollin my whip
Cause today I'm on the solo creep
Man, why you think I be workin so hard all week?
I'm just cruisin

Where, baby, I don't care (just cruisin)
As long as you take me there (just cruisin)
Somewhere to clear my mind (just cruisin)
Just cruisin (I'm just cruisin)
Where, baby, I don't care (just cruisin)
As long as you take me there (just cruisin)
Somewhere to clear my mind (just cruisin)
Just cruisin

Sun settin in the S-K-Y
Must say I've had the best day I'm..
tryin to find a exit, a place to chill
Not too hectic, so I can spend some time with Will
Let the, sunshine to the moonlight clear my mind
Soul search, see what I find
If I'm bein the best lover and friend
Am I being the best daddy I can?
I pray I am, and I feel good today
Reminisce as I'm cruisin around the way
Roll tight past the park where I used to play
Can't think of a better way to spend my day
Uh, still findin my way, still growin
Petrol blowin, moon soon showin
Gots to get goin, losin the light
And "The Freaks Come Out at Night," right
Just cruising

Where, baby, I don't care (just cruisin)
As long as you take me there (just cruisin)
Somewhere to clear my mind (just cruisin)
Just cruisin (I'm just cruisin)
Where, baby, I don't care (I’m just cruisin)
As long as you take me there (just cruisin)
Somewhere to clear my mind (just cruisin)
Just cruisin


Work in Progress by Alan Jackson
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Okay, I forgot about the trash,
I didn't trim the long hairs on my moustache.
I did buy you a ring; I believe it was back in '93.
Alright, I admit it; I forgot our anniversary.
I did pick up the baby this morning at the nursery.
That ain't no big thing; It's a gold star for me.

You get tired and disgusted with me,
When I can't be just what you want me to be.
I still love you and I try real hard.
I swear, one day, you'll have a brand new car.
I even asked the Lord to try to help me:
He looked down from Heaven, said to tell you please;
Just be patient, I'm a work in progress.

I'm sorry I got mad, waitin' in the truck;
It seemed like hours, you gettin' all dressed up,
Just to go to Shoney's on a Wednesday night.
I read that book you gave me about Mars and Venus;
I think it's sinkin' in but I probably need to re read it,
But I'm starting to see now, what you been saying is right.

You get tired and disgusted with me,
When I can't be just what you want me to be.
I still love you and I try real hard.
I swear, one day, you'll have a brand new car.
I even asked the Lord to try to help me:
He looked down from Heaven, said to tell you please;
Just be patient, I'm a work in progress.

I know you meant well when you bought me those clogs,
But my heels get hot down by the muffler on my hog.
I'm sure they're stylish, but I'll take my boots.
I try to do that health thing like you want me to do,
But that low-fat, no fat's gettin' hard to chew.
Now, I love your cookin', honey,
But sometimes, I need some real food.

You get tired and disgusted with me,
When I can't be just what you want me to be.
I still love you and I try real hard.
I swear, one day, you'll have a brand new car.
I even asked the Lord to try to help me:
He looked down from Heaven, said to tell you please;
Just be patient, I'm a work in progress.

Oh honey, just be patient, now,
I'm a work in progress.

Oh, I need a major tune up.
Maybe a full, body-off, restoration.
I’m tore up.


Now, in my defense, during the time I was married I did take out the trash (plus cooking, dishes, vacuuming, etc.), I never forgot a birthday or anniversary and I did help out with taking care of our son, even when he was a baby.

Now that I am single, a little older and a little wiser I try to find some time with 'Scott' and do some soul searchin which is normally while I am driving my 11 hours a week behind the wheel. Always among the thoughts is if "I am being the best daddy I can?" as the song says, "I pray I am."

However as a guy I understand that I have room for improvement in other areas, so please.... just be patient, I'm a work in progress.

Is there a Chiropractor in the house ?

Yesterday was the official 'moving day' into the new apartment. I have been taking boxes over from the storage unit and from my folks house for the past two weeks, but yesterday was the furniture.

I rented a big (24 foot) U-Haul truck and moved myself. Couch, recliner, boxes, tables, bookcases, dressers, more boxes, entertainment center and a huge television... (36' Sony WEGA that weighs abotu 250 pounds !) and all this was carried up to a second floor apartment.

I had my son, my parents, my 2 brothers, a friend and her daughter, and two 'moving guys' that I hired from a local moving agency. I only had family and friends on the loading end. So at the apartment we let the agency guys carry the heavy stuff.

Everything went much smoother than I thought. (I plan well, but I still sweat the details)

My mom and my friend brought lunch, snacks and drinks. At the end of the day everyone went home and collapsed, but at least they were well fed.

Now I just have to unpack, organize and get things set up. Give me a couple of weeks and it will feel like home.

As for the Chiropractor, that would be my youngest brother. But I think he was also hurting a little himself at the end of the day. I'll wait a few weeks and hit him up for an adjustment.

Am I the only one

Does anyone else think that James Blunt sucks as a singer? Obviously not....as here is another who agrees with me

I can't change the radio station quick enough when one of his irritating 'tunes' comes on.

He must have written "Goodbye my Lover" after a girl walked out on him after he sang "You're Beautiful" to her on a date.

Does rain bring out the idiots or are they always there and the rain just brings the idiot to the surface?

Ok, I am working like crazy, moving into a new apartment and my grandmother just had a stroke at the end of last week. So I have been just a tad bit busy and have not had time to post. However this mornings drive into work pissed me off and I just had to post something real quick.

I left the house this morning to drive to work and it took me over 45 minutes to make what is normally a 25 to 30 minute drive.... why? Because it was drizzling!

A little rain and wet pavement and people lose their friggin minds and drive below the speed limit. Of course there are more accidents.... it's the slow scared out of their minds people that cause the accidents to occur. They are driving 45-50 in the left or center lane on the highway.

I travel on a highway with 3 lanes in each direction and on a normal day traffic is moving along at 55-60 and there is little congestion. However this morning it was 35-45 and just short of being bumper to bumper. I fully expected that there was an accident a few miles up ahead that was slowing everything down.

That would have been to easy an answer. Nope the culprit was a little moisture. Put a light drizzle on the road and the people who are afraid to drive on a clear, dry, sunny day become freakishly frightened assholes. They drive in the left and center lanes 10-15 miles below the posted speed limit with a death grip on the steering wheel and a look of sheer terror on their faces.

On suburban 4 lane roads they are again driving 5 to 10 miles below the speed limit and even though they are already going slow and messing up the flow of traffic, they have to brake and slow even down even more a mile before a turn.

A good many of these accidents are cars that have been hit from behind and spun around. Why? Beacuse they have been hit by someone who was driving 'normally'.

These slow people do not drive with their foot on the brake pedal or with their flashers on to show those around them that they are literally crapping in their pants and that everyone else should watch out as they may do something else stupid that could affect hundreds of other drivers within 5 miles. No they just creep along impeding the flow of traffic and when some driver comes up behind them driving normally they freak out even more and hit their brakes or worse take their foot off the gas without hitting their brakes and those behind them are forced into reactive situations that lead to accidents.

Here are some tips for the assholes-

• If your car does not have good traction in wet weather..... get some new tires!
• If you are afraid of driving in the rain.....drive in the right lane or car pool or just stay home.
• If you are afraid of driving even when it is a clear, dry, sunny day.... stay off the road...period!

Get a job closer to where you live and ride a bike or walk, or take public transportation. Or get a job where you can telecommute and work from home.

Don't whine about your right to drive, driving is a PRIVILEGE not a right. Leave it to those of us who know how.

Every time a group of cars could get past one of these rainy day freaks you could see a look of relief come over the faces of all the drivers. That is until we came up on another rainy day freak....

I let off a nice road rage type yell in my car as I pulled into the parking lot at work. 8 hours in the office strapped to a desk will be more relaxing than the 45 minutes it took to get there......

Tunes in my head

Many people included my best friend Kemp have talked about the various CD's that they own that they have loaded onto their i-pods or artists that they look forward to buying and loading.

I am coming up on having had Lola for 2 months and I have a number of CD's that I own that I have loaded and listen to.

A Flock of Seagulls
ABC
Adam Ant
Aerosmith
Alan Jackson
Berlin
Big & Rich
Bobby Brown
Brian Wilson
Cameo
Chris Cagle
Darryl Worley
Depeche Mode
Devo
Dixie Chicks
Duran Duran
Dwight Yokam
Fleetwood Mac
Frankie Goes to Hollywood
Garbage
Garth Brooks
Gretchen Wilson
INXS
Jimmy Buffett
Jedd Hughes
John Denver
John Mayer
Josh Kelley
Kenney Chesney
Maroon 5
Mary Chapin Carpenter
Montgomery Gentry
Outkast
Pet Shop Boys
Peter Gabriel
Rascal Flatts
Red Hot Chili Peppers
Sade
Stevie Nicks
Suzanne Vega
Talk Talk
Terence Trent D’Arby
The Three Tenors
Toby Keith
Trace Adkins
Tracy Byrd
Travis Tritt
Veruca Salt
Wang Chung
Will Smith

for humor the Blue Collar Comedy Tour and a bunch of Bill Engvall....

Turning a new page in my life

I just signed the lease on an apartment. It is a 2 bedroom unit close to work and my son. This is a good thing and will definitely not only turn a new page, but hell it's going to start a whole new chapter in my life!

The best thing is that I will get to spend more time with my son as I will now be close enough for him to stay overnight for visitation 2 nights a week. Yep, I am an involved dad who enjoys what the state calls 'robust' visitation.

However this enters into new unchartered territory as I have never previously lived on my own before.

I know, how is it that a 42 year old guy has never lived on his own? Easy, after high school I went to a local college and lived at home. When I was in the service I lived in barracks with 45 other guys. After returning from the service I lived at home with the family until I met my ex-wife. I married at age 22 and separated from my ex at age 40. I moved out the day she attacked me and with no place else to go moved back in with family. Finally I am moving into my own place and living on my own.....

and you know what?....... It scares the hell out of me.

I will be doing what most people do when they are 20 years younger. I know that everything will be fine and everyone tells me that I will enjoy it and I am sure that after the first few weeks that I will, but right now it's the unknown.

The other good thing that can come out of this is dating. It's really hard to date when you are divorced and living with family. Although a lot (literally a ton) of people are in the same situation, and understandably so, there is still a stigma attached to being older than 25 and living with family.

You know if I am going to be doing things that people do in thier 20's it would be nice if I had the body I had in my 20's!

I know, small steps...